Eulogy for Mrs. Captain Bunker, and Bunker Genealogy
Remarks made at the funeral or Mrs. Captain Bunker, May 23d, 1912,
by her Pastor, Addison II. Hayes.
If I could consult my own feelings to-day I would take my place among
the mourners in this circle of relatives and friends, for Mrs. Bunker en-
tered into my life, as a neighbor and an invalid, and daily I watched for
her greeting at the window or on the porch.
This scripture from the 9th of Ecclesiastes and the 10th verse she
chose last January as her motto, and how well it illustrates her life,
"Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might." It typifies
the New England life to the letter. The Oriental mind says, "Tomorrow",
the New England mind says, "To-day". What a hardy race grew up on our
New England coast! With a stony soil, bleak and long Winters, yet did
they extract from the soil and the sea, sustenance and abundance, with
surplus enough to carry out their high ideals of life. They gave us our
best type of local government and school. They gave us gifted authors,
princely statesmen, great manufacturers, thrifty farmers and happy homes.
Secret? They "Did with their might what their hands found to do". Thus
this text names the instrument of usefulness and achievment as the human
hand. What a marvelous tool it is! In early New England days, it cleared
the forests, spun the wool and flax for clothing and by candle light
wrought the cloth into garment, To-day the human hand guides the plow,
runs the machine in the factory, paints the masterpieces in Art, chisels
all the statues in marble, sweeps the keys of all instruments of music,
and shows all the goods in trade. In the household this hands wipes the
tears from the troubled face of childhood, it ministers in a thousand
offices to the needs of the aged or the sick and gives the warm hand clasp
as the seal of friendship, and performs a hundred miracles in the household
every day. Write the history of Grandma Bunker's hands in her married
life of half a century, and you have a thrilling history of activity and
efficiency, of courtesy and kindness, trust and tenderness.
She "Did with her might what her hands found to do". If Chaplain
McCabe could only come back, how he would sing again, as no one else could,
the song of "Mother's Hands".